I Don’t Sing. It Sings Within Me.
- Sabine Toliver

- Aug 18
- 2 min read
There are moments in singing that are difficult to explain.
Sometimes they last only a few seconds.
Suddenly, something feels different.
The breath flows.
The body carries.
The voice unfolds without the sense that we have to produce it.
And for a moment, something disappears that so often accompanies us when we sing: the idea that we have to do everything ourselves.
Many singers know this state. We often call it FLOW.
Yet whatever we choose to call it, something essential becomes apparent:
While our conscious intervention recedes, the body remains highly active.
Breathing, muscles, posture, vibration, perception – countless processes organise themselves together for a sound to arise at all.
And yet, it feels as though we ourselves hardly have to do anything for it.
This may point to a misunderstanding in the way we approach the voice.
We confuse the body’s self-organised activity with the active intervention of our will.
The necessary activity is already arising within the body itself.
So the question is not how much we have to do. It is how much we can allow to happen.
In my teaching, I have experienced moments again and again in which exactly this becomes perceptible: the person in front of me stops trying to produce the voice continuously – and something changes.
The sound arises as a consequence, not as a demand.
This does not mean that singing becomes arbitrary or that we lose control.
Quite the opposite.
Attention remains.
Awareness remains.
Presence remains.
Only our constant intervention recedes.
And sometimes, this also changes the way we experience our own singing.
Not:
I sing.
But:
It sings within me.
Perhaps the art of singing does not lie in learning to control the body better and better.
Perhaps sometimes it is enough to stand in its way a little less.
This thought leads almost inevitably to another question:
What if the body already knows the way?
The conversation continues.